Haley: I just told my mom the steps of getting over someone
Me: Hopefully it helps.
Me: There's no set speed of it, just steps.
Haley: Yep. First, distant yourself. Second, delete special texts and voicemails and emails. Three, keep your mind busy.
Me: Deleting stuff really helps.
Me: Takes a while to get there, but it's such a relief when you do.
Haley: Yes.
Haley: You'll regret it a millon times but in the end, you thank yourself for it.
Haley: You basically purge them from yourself.
Me: You'll never tell yourself thank you outloud but you know deep down.
Haley: I tell myself thank you all the time. Every time I purge someone from my life, I go back every now and then and thank god I did it. I get new perspective and saw just how they weren't good for me.
Me: Blah.
Me: good.
Me: I'm glad.
Haley: You don't get that? Maybe I just think too much.
Me: Nooooo.
Me: I definitely get that.
Me: It's just scary.
Haley: It is?
Me: For me, anyways.
Me: I always want to give people more and more chances just so I can maybe get a glimpse of the good person that I thought they were.
Me: Idk.
Haley: You're a truly good person.